In a new article published in the Centre for Male Psychology magazine, attorney and academic author Richard Procida examines how modern mating patterns are creating a form of de facto polygyny, where a concentration of female attention on a smaller number of high-value men leaves many average men without romantic partners, leading to elevated loneliness and mental health risks. The article, titled “‘Some guys have all the luck’. Bachelorette Parties, Lonely Boys, and De Facto Polygyny,” is available online at the Centre for Male Psychology’s website.
Procida’s analysis comes at a time when loneliness has been declared a public health epidemic by the U.S. Surgeon General, with men disproportionately affected. He argues that the current mating market, characterized by the use of dating apps and social media, has intensified competition, enabling women to be more selective and often focusing on a small percentage of men. This dynamic, he says, leaves many men excluded from intimate relationships, with profound psychological consequences, including diminished social networks and increased risks to mental health.
“The article highlights a growing but often overlooked crisis,” Procida said. “We’re seeing a significant portion of young men who are not in relationships, and this has serious implications for their well-being and for society as a whole.”
Procida’s work extends beyond mating dynamics to broader social issues. In a separate article, “The Polarization Trap,” published at LA Progressive, he examines how polarized thinking, particularly around gender and social issues, entrenches people on opposing sides and hampers constructive dialogue. He suggests that understanding the underlying causes of polarization is crucial for bridging divides.
The timing of these publications is notable, as the nation grapples with deep political and cultural divisions. Procida’s insights offer a lens into how personal experiences of loneliness and exclusion may fuel political polarization, as disaffected individuals may become more susceptible to extreme ideologies.
Procida, who is also the author of “Social Issues in Global Perspective: Pornography” (Lexington Books), is available for media interviews and speaking engagements. He brings a unique perspective as an attorney and academic, combining legal analysis with social commentary.
The Centre for Male Psychology article is part of a growing body of research and commentary on men’s issues, sparking conversations about the need for support systems and policy responses. As the debate continues, Procida’s contributions provide a nuanced examination of the intersections between personal well-being and societal trends.
